PIL's property-Please advice

Hi,

So my marriage is all finalized. Something came up today, which I thought was really weird.

My fiancee calls me saying huge fight in the house. My fiancee has a brother and sister. my sil is having issues that pil have not done anything for them, but for their daughter they are doing everything. But I know pil's conducted and paid for their wedding.

What I don't understand is the mentality. It is PIL's hard earned money and they can spend however they want. The only time I feel the sons should have a say is if parents are asking money from them to spend on their daughter, which they have not. I don't understand why my sil is upset. Why do people feel they have a claim to a property or wealth which they have not earned or worked for.

My parents are super wealthy. But all my siblings never ever make claim to it because all the wealth was earned by my dad and they both made a lot of sacrifices to get there. I feel so blessed we do not have property disputes like this. One of my sibling was a late bloomer and parents had to financially care for him until he got on his feet. Now he is doing amazing. But none of the others complained that they spent a lot on him..blah blah. It is their money, they can burn it if they want to.

So...why why why these fights over free money? Any money that one gets without working for it is free money according to me. I left to US in my teen years...maybe that's y i am not understanding this

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PIL's property-Please advice