There was a time when i thought we cod have a second kid. But offlate i am just not able to manage my only child... No maid as i am a homemaker and we r trying to keep expenses at bay. Meanwhile can not depend that parents n inlaws wil come n help as they r not in grt health. can a single person (that is the mother) alone raise both the children by herself without depending on anyone (husband mostly on travel)... If yes please tell me how do to .. i am just so exhauseted... am kind of ok with one kid..husband is not very particular abt anything..choice is mine... but i feel guilty when i see other families with two kids. i am not a lazy person, i cook 3 home made meals everyday, spend time with dd, read stories etc house work etc..hardly watch tv ... can i do this for another kid without depending on husband,parents,inlaws, maid, nanny etc?
i dont know.. i am sometimes depressed thinking that after twenty years, i wil realise that i have been selfish n deined my dd her joy of bro/sis...
please tell me your experiences...
Should I feel guilty for the rest of my life if we decide to have only one kid !!
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