I have gone through the same, when we moved out, my FIL would throw the unpaid electricity bills, milk and other bills through our new house window for the time we had lived in their house. They knew we were under tremendous financial pressure, but they did behave cheaply and put the blame on me that I wanted out. I had fallen sick in their house due to the stressful environment. They needed someone to lash out on and I was a willing victim at the time. It was difficult to behave normally after that, but with time, I let the bitterness go, and became polite and courteous naturally and now there is no trace of any bitterness at all. We keep our distance but also know that we are there for each other.
You dont have to turn your face when you talk, be polite, courteous... give them respect as you would to a elderly person and do not go overboard trying to mend the relationship. You dont visit them alone....go with your husband. Relationship will mend on its own in time.
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