jeudi 26 mars 2015

Finding hard to continue married life

I am a foreigner married to an Indian and living in India. It was a love marriage and accepted by parents later. at first my husband was loving and caring. good with my parents too. but he is not very close to his family since his school days. My parents migrated with my only sibling to another country. they also said that they will try to get us over there but getting a visa has become harder. I have a 4 yr old daughter. my husband was hoping that some how that we will join my parents. but unfortunately it's our bad luck. but my parents are still trying go get us there some how. but meanwhile my husbands behavior has become worse. I am a house wife since my delivery. I do not have any relatives or friends here in chennai. I am the only one to take care of my child. My parents are financially somehow helping me as I am not working. they have helped my husband to startup a business on partnership.

but he is not trying to develop his business or trying to do some other work to earn for our family. day be day he tries to corner me as we didn't get a way to migrate. I know I also cannot do anything with this cz migration rules are not in our hand. Now he is demanding by asking more help from my parents. ( i.e now he wanted my parents to buy him a own house) or else he wanted me to go for work. He already aware that I cannot work as I have to take care of my kid. Also he wanted to treat me as a typical housewife. Every time he try to find fault on me from cooking to cleaning, washing etc... at last he said if my parents cannot help us somehow, to go back to my country. but he will not allow me to take my daughter. I love my daughter more than anything. I am really depressed. I do not have anyone here. I have no one to share my problems. only my parents contact me on my phone or viber. My life is spent only at house I go out is only to buy veggies and milk.


I am so depressed. I cannot go to my country as my parents are migrated to another country. I also cannot go there due to tuff migration procedures.Even if I go to my own country ( I can get some help from my friends and my relatives) I cannot live without my daughter. can anyone pls advise what to do.


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Finding hard to continue married life

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