Its new years day and i got a bit upset with my sil.

Me and dh wished everybody via phone. first called my ils and then my family. all was good till i called my brother.. I wanted to talk with my 3 year old niece so my bro called his daughter 3 4 times to wish me but my sil dint allowed her to talk with me

Later my dh wished my brother, then sil stopped cooking in between and literally snatched phone from my brother and started talking with my dh over sweetly. Dh wished her and then handed over the phone to me so that i could wish her, i said hello 3 4 times but no reply, and then i heard my bros hello. It was very much rude, i was saying hello hello and she was at the other end listening but dint said a single word.....

i felt very bad, She just wanted to show to my dh and his family that i dont deserve any talks from her.

She has done this 2 3 times before as well. She does the same to my mom n dad. she never talks with my mom but talks with al her relatives and in front of them disrespects mom, same thing with dad, no talks with him but shares every single detail with my dads side relatives, says bad words for him too.

I talked with her once, i actually wanted to listen to her and after that i beat my head. she had a problem that my mom wore new saree in her wedding-she meant to say that my mom tried to look more pretty then her and show her inferior..OMG in india we wear good clothes on such occasions, its a normal thing. ladies believe me my mom wore a plain simple cotton saree, no sparkling stuff nothing.

Then she had a problem... why my parents organized my ring ceremony. my parents dint asked her for a single penny for any of my functions but still...

Whenever i tried talking with her, she came up with new issues everytime and all baseless, seems like she collects small instances, make them big and presents them when we try to talk with her.

I can not share this with my dh, he ll mix it up with his family's issue.

Many times she has disrespected my parents (very simple people)but they are old, to avoid arguments they never utter a word... arguments means abusive words. no ils would like their daughter using abusive words.Even her parents say that their daughter is very stubborn, she never listened to her father even.

Today m feeling like slapping her, i might be wrong, i should not be saying this but


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