That is impossible... We treat our parents as ours because of the blood relationship and bonding since childhood. We are used to their living, their approach and everything. We also inherit most of their behavior; thus it is a very comfortable relationship to be in.
Treating in-laws like your own parents?
You can treat your PIL with respect, affection, love and care. But not in the same place as your parents. Very difficult, or impossible.
If at all, it is possible then the pros will be: Taking them for granted. You can ask MIL to cook while you watch an interesting movie or read online here.
You can rightfully blame MIL for not bathing your kid on time, or not doing their home work since you are busy at home
You can advice MIL about recent trends and expect her to proudly nod her head
Cons: Hard to resist when your DH wants to send all his salary to his parents. Hard to resist when they demand for anything. Moreover hard to resist when they interfere with everything
Treating in-laws like your own parents?
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