Sister's and BIL's Relationship Problem

To all the indus ladies, i need some advice on a situation occured in my sisters life.

My Sister loved a person and got married to him. There was bit of anger from my BIL's parents. But finally they got married to their requirements and demands. They now got a 1 year old baby and my parents came to help them out during pregnancy. During their stay one fine day my mum asked my BIL for constantly scolding my Sister with bad words infornt of them.

There was an argument which i got to know recently. Now my parents left to india and his parents joinined them. Well my sister works full time and they look after the baby on weekdays. Sister's MIL does cooking for the lunch time and my sister does roties for the dinner time (Depending on her MILS mood she may or may not cook enough). MIL get holiday on weekends from baby houshold work and just allocates time to talk to her daughter and playing video games. They are planning to bring BIL's Sisters family to overseas to give some rest as she recently got family planning operation. She is coming with her husband and two kids. There is no objection from my sisters side. All the applications are processed and they will be joining them for 1 month.

Yesterday, the baby vomited what ever they gave to her. First milk was given she vomited that. Then they gave some rice and she vomited even that. My sister gave her a small peice of carrrot and even that came out. While all of them sat down for dinner, my sister gave small peice of roti to the baby(she said thinking she might eat) and her husband suddenly shouted on her. I sister gave a serious look as their inlaws where sitting infont of her. She felt sad and didnt eat the food and went to her room. My BIL came to their room and started beating her a fight broke out and their parent came in to see them fighting. They stopped them and when MIL turned he started to fight at this point my wife shouted her MIL. His Dad was in tears itseems seeing them fight like that. i am not on the side of my sister or BIL. I told her there are ways to do arguments in a human way. i told her to be patient in such situation and act maturely. My sisters arguement is he told her why you are so head strong and who is suggesting you all this(directing to my mother).

I want your advises on how to handle this situation. Basically my sister has no say on what happens in their house. Decisions are made between parents and son(only when they are here). My sister will be told at the end. My sister is a strong persons and a matured lady. i was shocked to hear what happened. Her salary will be going to his account on the day she gets paid. He told her that he will be giving divorce to her. Just got really scared of this and want to give her genuine suggestions to her.

Please not that my BIL is good person in general. but is very nagging about what we cook and if turns out bad. he does look after my sister well but when he gets angry bad words and mistreatment and pinching her is what i noticed.

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