Feeling very jealous and angry at the same time !!!!

The fear, jealousy and hard feelings usually comes out of insecurity. You may not know how insecure you are about yourself and your present life. It may be something like your inferiority about being less qualified or less richer than your in laws. It is not always the case with every normal person.

Needless to say how bad people my in laws were. Even then, I had no hard feelings about my BIL's education, salary raise or even the wealthy background of my co-sisters. Because I am one very strong woman, who has a very high value about myself. I never count myself any lesser than anyone. So, what others gain or loose seldom affect my mind.

It is true, sometimes we do feel bad about some extra positive news or luck of a mean person. But it never comes up this way as jealousy, fear or insecurity to post a thread like this.

Girl, you are a supper, sweet, excellent and nice woman of your own. No one can be compared with you, as everyone has their own unique life with their own set of ups and downs.

Your SIL may be proud about her DH, so what?

I am also proud about my DH, and many others here including you are also the same. Take it that way.

If she blabber something irritating or rudely, then take it easy. Tell her you are also happy, proud about her DH. More importantly, you are bit relieved because of the fact that her DH is supper rich or qualified. Because many women suffer because of their poor, vulnerable and needy SILs. Take it positively, and show it out. They will stop hurting you.

If they are supper rich, then what?

You may be rich in something else... May be a good H, good kids, good health.. Think about it. Do not always compare.

Feeling very jealous and angry at the same time !!!!