My wife and I have been married for six years and are in our early 30's. I have always tried to be a good husband and make her happy. I gave her lots of love and attention and told her often that I love her and that she's beautiful. I did a lot around the house and took her out on dates. We had lots of time for each other with similar work schedules. Our marriage was passionate and seemed very good; we connected very well, had great conversation, communicated easily, and our sex life was wonderful.
A couple of weeks ago, I was at home while she was still at work and was using the laptop we share. I was going to check my email, but it turned out she had forgotten to log out of her own email. I noticed a lot of emails from her co-worker and got very suspicious. I opened them up and it turned out they'd been having an affair for the last few months. They'd even had sex in our own bed once.
When she got home that evening, I confronted her and told her I knew she was having an affair. At first, she tried to deny it and call me paranoid, but when I showed her the emails, she burst into tears and begged me not to leave. Since then, she's been crying and begging me to forgive her. She showed me a no-contact email she sent him and tells me she loves me, that this guy was just a rush, and that she still finds me attractive.
I am very confused. How can someone cheat on their spouse and still be attracted to their spouse? How can someone have an affair and still love their spouse? Doesn't an affair or cheating mean that a person has lost love or interest in their spouse? How can I tell if she wants to reconcile because she loves me or because she wants the security of a marriage, the financial stability, or the house?I feel no life left in our relation
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