Help Me Coming Out Of Husband's Cheating..Plsss

Hi dear sisters,

Sorry for the long post, I have tried my best to make it as brief as possible.

I have been married for 6 yrs. I have gone through v tough time in my early married years .my mil and sil has made my life hell to me. My MIL is v pocessive abt my husband, to the extent that she was using bad words for me if she comes to know that me n my hubby had s** ,which is a basic right of a married couple. She was asking me to take bath before any1 wakes up , (before4:30am) and our geyser was not working that time, she was not allowing me to enter kitchen before taking bath, to heat water.I was forced to take bath with cold water early 4am(am always used to take hot baths, I get breathing prob if I take bath with cold water).Even with all these difficulties I never said NO to my husband whenever he wanted s**. I loved him a lott. MIL used to bad mouth my parents in front of me. I was not allowed to go out with my husband. Husband is not allowed to bring any gift for me.Husband is not allowed to visit my parents. MIL is always taunting me for no reason.Am a peace loving girl. I don’t like quarreling. I compromised with all these and a lot more only for my husband.

Now a yr back we have shifted separately. I am a working women. 3months back I came to know abt my husbands affair with a girl residing in our area. When I came to know about this I got shattered, continuously tears were rolling down my eyes for all week long. I lost faith in love and marriage.i couldn’t bear him touching me. While I go to office and work all day long for our future he used to call that girl to my home and they had s**. I loved him a lot. I completely lost myself.I never expected this from him. I couldn’t be able to think any thing.I tried to commit suicide with my 3 yr old . I didn’t wanted to leave my son with my husband. When he came to know this he rushed to the placed and rescued us. He accepted that he did a big mistake, begged for forgiveness. He said He will make me trust him for the whole life.He will bring back my lost faith and he cant live without me.He sworn on our son that he will not keep that girl in contact in any way. He has sworn on the Holy Book as well. I had no option but to give him a chance again. when I asked him how n all about the affair he told it has been started even before our marriage( that women is married with 2 children, with an elder girl aged 11yrs, she was in love with my husband before marriage).Till now he is not in touch with her. she texted couple of days before that why he is not receiving her calls. He texted her back not to call or msg him again. He has even told her that he cant continue all these. whenever I see that girl I just go out of my control. My pressure rises to the max.

My mom has already so many tensions. She trusts my husband. I didn’t tell abt this to any1 except my sis. I cant give the same respect to my husband which he was getting before . I am confused to believe him again or not. Sometimes I feel I should sometimes I cant.

Am not leading a healthy married life. Please help me how to deal with this delimma.

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Help Me Coming Out Of Husband's Cheating..Plsss