I really need your inputs in understanding my situation. Its weird, tough and confusing. Mine was a luv cum arranged marriage 5 yrs back, dd 4 yr old. Life is very complex afa DH is concerned. DH was abusive and hitted me many times during a fight or argument however has improved a lot and breaks things and tries to grab me occasionally in fit/rage.
He keeps taunting on each and every action of mine (like MIL). Is very judgmental and insecure. I have done some research on Nassist personalities and he seems to be the one. He is not ready to see a counselor and says that all his behavior is because of my changed nature before and after marriage. This torture of 5 years has wiped all my love for him. I am working and my mom helps me with dd.
On the other hand, DH is a very good father and stays in a different city for now due to work commitments. He says he would never divorce me for society/dd reason which even I have agreed to. He is very caring for me too and enjoys with us when not fighting. Sex life is ok too.
I have accepted the present situation however I don't understand what is the reason that he is making life complex. He wants to control my every action/word..everything. PILs were interfering however now I don't care.
Friends, I am in a dilemma, really don't know what will happen tomorrow. This man has changed several times during this 8 yr old relation and 5 yr old marriage. Please suggest and provide your inputs on what do you think of my situation.
Thanks
Rocky Marriage....I believe
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