My sister is at my house for her Masters Program's Winter break. I am married and have a 2 yr old girl. I was hoping that since its her break she might be helpful in taking care of my child for some time occasionally( such as feeding her or keeping her entertained while I cook). I work full time and would have appreciate any help(either household or babysitting) . I guess she treats this house like a mother's house. She watches TV or surfs internet in her room in the night and sleeps till 12 PM in the afternoon. Our schedules dont match at all.
She has already been angry twice with me because
1) I took her shopping but had to cut it short because it was getting late and wanted to show my child the santa.
2) I asked her to feed my child but she started kicking and screaming . I told her not to give up and have patience and she can feed the child. Instead my sister got upset and she said not to tell her to take care of the child since she doesnt know anything about it. I said OK for that as well.
Although, I am outwardly OK with this , I feel bad that my own sister wont help me out , even though she knows I work full time and take care of house, child etc. I try really hard to take her shopping and had even taken out for a beach trip, cook her favorite food etc
Am I expecting something wrong? How is it when your siblings visit you?
Sister's visit turning out to be an issue
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