Between SIL n her DH fights we are getting screwed

Hii Ladies,

I have a new problem now in my life. Actually it was there from before but we used to neglect it but now getting on my nerves.

My SIL n her husband had love marriage after 4 yrs of affair. Married but both families were unhappy due to some reasons. Now they married for 8 years but every 2 days they have fights on silly things.

BIL will say food not good or this n that, my SIL will create a huge drama even if BIL said a small thing then call her mom (my MIL) who stays one station far and start bla bla bla in from on my BIL. BIL gets angry n tried to snatch phone n huge fight again. Not enough yet she will call my DH (we staying abroad n starts crying with bla bla bla).

My SIL nature, after fights or normally also she will go all her friends and say me n my Dh had fight..he beat me.. i am going to die now etc etc.

My BIL nature, very calm n quite but very lazy only work n after coming home only TV.

My MIL will put wrong things in my SIL minds about BIL n interfere in their fights which my BIL dont like.

Usually they fight for food, my BIL want good food , non veg etc. My SIL dont know to cook tasty food, she knows only her some simple dishes which she will keep on repeating. I tell her to learn new dishes easy one but she not interested. BIL is fond of food so wants different food, unfortunately my SIL's MIL is staying in next bldg so my BIL goes n satisfies his hunger needs, His mom cooks good.

So basically fights are silly, and each time my MIL calls my DH and tell u talk to BIL not to fight n all, then if my DH says anything to BIL they become enemies and then my SIL n BIL becomes lovers again. I dont understand how to stop my DH from interfering their life because ultimately we are becoming villains here, because of my MIL.

Now my husband going to india for vacation, MIL insisting on talking to BIL dont know how to avoid ... n how to warn her not to call us or my MIL during sleep hours n disturb saying her stupid fights.

Pls help

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Between SIL n her DH fights we are getting screwed