lundi 29 décembre 2014

Matha Pitha Guru Deivam

We all know how important is Matha Pitha Guru Deivam in our life. Today I was listening to Visakha Hari's programme in the morning when she told about how parents are very important and how we should respect them, which brought me memories of my parents, grandmother because of whose blessings I am whatever I am today.

In life we need God and elder's blessing to achieve anything and Guru is also equally important who will guide us always. My mother was a simple person and whenever she is free she will be reading prayer books and she was the only daughter , so my grandmother, ie. her mother stayed with us only. So our grandmother was more like our mother and she used to fulfill all our wishes. She was an allrounder and in Tamil only she used to talk to the vegetable vendors etc. andbuy vegetables. For my sister's marriage she brought all steel vessels by giving old clothes except for some items. She also prayed to God that she will offer 1001 Kozakattai (Modak) to Lord Vinayaka for my sister's marriage to go smooth and without any problems. When it was time for my marriage she was laid with cancer and I had the opportunity to serve her. That time she told me you pray yourself for your marriage because I wont be there. Dont worry you will get a good husband. Her words came true and my husband was from her place only and a gem of a person. She was expert in making kai murukku and used to go and make in relative or friends house. My second brother was very fond of sevai , so she used to make sevai with sevai nazhi which was so difficult to make


My father always treated me like a child and never used to share his problems with but with my sister who is elder to me . He also in the last stages suffered from Cancer. I had just finished my schooling and was at home , so got the opportunity to serve him. Since my sister was working he used to tell me only to look after him. Those days we did not have so much facilities as we hav enow and my parents and grandmother had to pass through different phases. But they never used to grumble and always see that we are happy. Now also if I think of my father I remember how in the cold weather covering himself with a blanket used to go out.


My father enjoyed when he had a Hotel but he used to take care of his sisters and our family too. But later he lost the hotel and started doing catering work in a canteen. He was expert in making Jangri .


The life we are having now with facilities they could not enjoy much but they were very happy with whatever they had and led a peaceful life .


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