Post delivery staying with mom or in law?

Of course with moms. No one can replace a mom's care and love, specially during this special time. Of course i could very well manage both my pregnancies and post-deliveries all alone (with H and a nanny), i preferred my mom to get back some pampering and affection.

In my opinion, reasonable MILs will be supportive, more caring for the babies than moms. Sometimes, their old wives tale stories could upset us. Though we here almost same stuff from moms, we are tuned to it; thus adjustment is easy.

A couple of month is fine. You can completely heal yourself from c-sec and learn your baby within a month unless there are complications. So, better move back to your own house and live with your immediate family.

Post delivery staying with mom or in law?