Now with H, I start the fight because I have a valid point. But the pblm is when I argue with my H, I never give him time for anything. He is exactly of guessho’s suggestion types. .Very dignified in that manner. Never hesitates to ask sorry..If I shout he tells calm & get composed then we can talk. If I accuse him he walks out of the room saying I have some work. If I cry he consoles me but still I will explain too much, egs, analysis etc etc & he will be calm throughout and tells he needs time to think about it. But I will follow him till he opens his mouth & say something... Finally he cries when I relate it with love.
Again the after effects will be me sulking and ignoring him..He will talk limited & again we make up finally somehow...Actually for my own betterment & peace of mind I want to stay composed..What do you people do? Suggestions solicited?
How do you stay composed in an argument?
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