Pre Indian marriage family problem

Ask her to look at the big picture and comprise in small things . This is a common custom followed in many communities , not something invented by your parents .

I guess Her parents are old enough to take care of themselves.

Another alternative is to have the first meeting somewhere outside where your partners , her parents can meet without any relatives whee she can present . You guys can finish all the important discussions at this time and also establish what will be the program at your house when relatives come , so her parents are prepared what to expect.

Do they have a rule like that in thier household .

If so , You also don't visit her house when your parents go . She is just being childish. If she insists , make up Some leave problems when it is time for your parents to visit.

If you need parents blessing for love marriage you need to be tactful not adamant .

getting into power play at this initial stages itself is not going to bode well for your future .

Pre Indian marriage family problem