Ok, I have this really annoying co-sister of mine who keeps boasting about how great she is. I have worked for 6 years in IT with a good salary, went onsite and took my DH as dependent... Since I couldn't take DD with me (as my DH can't take care of a 2yr old ), DD stayed with my mom in mom's place.... Eventually we started missing each other and I resigned my job as DD is important than anyone else.
Once I resigned and became a Stay at home mom, l noticed my co-sister started boasting about herself.. .just for an example.... She rides a two wheeler and was saying that someone from my BIL ofc said "wow..ur wife is great".... So on and so forth .... I put a deaf ear to all these as i knew she was jealous all the while and wanted to show that even she can outdo working women (btw she is stay at home mom). But my real problem came when she started talking about my DH. I don't want to elaborate but comparisons that my BIL is greater than my DH....not directly but with some examples she indirectly mocks my DH. MY DH hates her a lot and asked me not to listen to her at all. I don't want to but every alternate days she calls me up and I try to avoid her by saying I am keeping busy and she feels hurt for that. I am not a let it go type person.... After all they are family.... I get irked when she even starts abt her self dabba(which I lately realised was all rubbish) .... Feel like shouting.... "STOP IT". I sometimes give it back to her but I know that she is having inferiority complex that is why she is bringing these things in every conversations.
Some of you might have dealt or dealing with these type of people who are not uncommon. Please share your experiences if any
Unnecessary conversations.... How to avoid?
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