How to handle this?

Hi all,

I am married in 2005,9 years passed away.Mine is love marriage.

I am working women and have two kids.my kids are 5 and 3 years.i live in USA.For both the delivery my MIL was there.And my mom came after that.DH forced me to bring his mom , MIL insisted to come because she was not called by my co-sister for her delivery.Even thought she talk silly words,helped and i also have work at office and do shopping and help at home too.

Many times MIL had thrown angry face for talking care of my kid during the daytime when i work and cooking during my due date.My husband does travel job and he is here only once in two weeks.He will not even care to help,he takes rest ,talks with is friends and goes for night out and spend time with friends.and i have to cook for him.wont even care to take care of kids and i had to do every thing by my self.I Had to do his office work also if he gets too much pressure.But always insist to keep the house clean and i have to take care of the kids properly it seems.

If i ask him to help me my atleast watching kids,for the days that he is here.He blames that i fighted with MIL(which is not true) and so they are not coming.If i behaved nicely they will come and take care of my kids

Sick of calling mom or MIL.we did that many time and they are also not interested and they are old and they have fear that if they get sick ,it is difficult.

Want to get help from him,atleast in weekends? how to ask?He might be angry or ,i dont know how to handle it?

He also tries to save his money in buying property and i had to spend for all the household.I was not interesed in fighting for money and just left it,since i can earn and not worried about this part.

But i heard my sis saying you need some savings,since you cant work all the life time?

Since all the property is in his native in his moms name and they wont allow me to interfere in theirs.My money is also included in that.

Now i feel that i needed some savings from my salary that i can access.

He just fights .I am worried about fighting back ,since i think it affects my kids future.Please advice

You Might Find These Useful:

How to handle this?