Co-sister Behaviour....

Hi all Lovely Ladies....wish you a very very happy holi. Me n My co-sister...we are two Dil's in the family. i was living in UK from the day after 4 months of my marriage.

1. My Co-sister used to celebrate one festival with in-laws every year. she lives in different state n in-laws lives in different state.

2. I used to come once a year from last 7 yr. Meet in-laws.

3. In-laws used to taunt me for not doing seva . I invite them several times...tried to book the ticket...FIL always send....don't waste money in booking ticket...transfer same money /amount from which we will use in buying farms in village.

4. We used to send 1 lacs every month. approx 10 lacs in a yr.

5. We help FIL in buying farms in FIL's name. and we used to come india in a year....i tried my level best to serve them 3 fresh meals every day for a month every year.From morning 5 am to 11 p.m i spend time between four walls....do cleaning, sweeping , mopping, washing cloths, cooking 2 curries, chapati, raita, salad, dals, 2 times in day...and fresh breakfast also.i also entertain their guests.

I tried my level best physically...never answer back...and my DH always send money.

Still FIL n all were thinking that we are living like a queen n king in uk and earning millions and transfering only 1 lac per month. Still all of them were not happy with me.

6. now comes to co-sister...she comes every year to inlaws place. she used to show them they are poor and i don't behave properly with her on phone..but it was not at all like that...i am very down to earth person...

7. i came back in this january from uk to india and settled in different state....becoz of job of my DH.

8. Fil, SIL, SIL's hubby, SIL's Kid...all of them came for a 10 days for holi...i serve /entertain them from morning 5 to evening 11 pm...

Today FIL called Co-sister ask her to wish me HAppy HOli...she said happy holi to me.....i also wished her and ask her how are you celebrating...what s going on?? SHE CUT THE PHONE...i didn't ask anything to FIL but ask to my husband in private....

DH was saying she got jealous...that now you are getting brownie points from inlaws..but i am feeling very insulted...She should not do this on festival.

I AM FEELING VERY INSULTED....:((

I also invite her to come and celebrate with us...but she refused.

pls suggest me what should i do...

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