Staying with parents after marraige

Hi All,

I would like to know opinions of ILites on this.

I am married and have a son, age 17 months now. We live in USA, so we don't have a home for ourselves in India, we come to visit india and stay with parents and PILs.

(we bought a house but rented it, as we come here for vacations only)

But due to some complicated visa thing me and my son are in India now for the past 1 year and 3 months. As visa thing taking time, my husband told me to get a bed room constructed for yourself in your parents home, so I got a upstairs room and a hall constructed for myself, (financial by me and my dad did all other help) which I can use till me and my son go back to US. (I have a sister who is unmarried, so this entire house goes to her only, not for others siblings another sis and bro)

I first wanted to take a house for rent in the same town of my parents, but I didn't feel that secure to live by myself and son, and my parents said why to rent and dependent on maids, when we are here.

But few months back my sister daughter, i.e my niece, who just completed 10+2, says

"as per rule you should live with your In-laws only now". my sis didn't say anything, nor my parents when she said this. I got hurt.

I have been financial and emotional support for my parents for the past 7-8 years ,( even though they get pension). I get lot gifts too to my niece, as they are only close relatives. Now I am here for security and emotional reasons only, not any kind of dependency, except my mom cooks for all, I cook some times. All kid care taken by me.

Can't we stay with parents after marraige for long time?( as it not vacationing just very much needed to stay out of US, a visa thing). Should I have rented and lived separately? Please share your views.

Staying with parents after marraige