I hv been married for almost 7 years and hv 1.5 years old lil boy... I am really in shock and upset today.. we live in foreign country, both professionaly qualified.. my hubby lost his job yesterday.. he was working with very big international company (this employer since almost 3.5 years). His performance was ok but this year they want to lay off people due to project closure etc so they gave him below averag ranking and laid off suddenly on grounbd of restructuring... I know this is not very big problem but this is also not first time happening with him... he is been laid off few times previously.. He appears to be intelligent (definately not below average at least) and he has professional qualification (no one gets it just like that) but for some or the other reason he always faces problems at workplace (never get supportive bosses) we ask our jyotishi and he said it is because his rahudasha that will last for almost another 11 years he is facing these problems as rahu is contradicting the sthan opf performance appraisal.. ... He is good human being (we had issues intially as ours was arranged marriage but got sorted eventually.. had gone through some tough times but its all ok now)... but this uncertainity re his job is always comes hounting us... I am also working and money is not issue so far... I want an advice as to -
how should i behave in such situation ? should i support hubby or not ?
I wa quite upset yesterday and had little fight with him.. he was already disppointed.. he is looking for another job but i m afraid he will loose new job again...The environment in house is becoming so negative... I dont know how to deal with this... we are trying to go to other country wheer we are better suit (work culture wise etc) but no success to hubby's effeorts... The problem is that he tries and gets good jobs but unable to retain it for long time (some or other problem happens and he loosses the job) he never stops trying though and tries his best at workplace... Do you think he is a looser or has any flaws ? Please guide me as to how to handle this situation please i m very very upset..Not sure when and how our life will get better and only if it will........
Problem with hubby's carrier.. advise needed please
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