Not a burning problem, but I just wish I could do something :
Background : My SIL is younger to me and just out of her engineering and stays with us. We maintain a cordial relationship and I try not to interfere or indulge in her life or daily activities. We do not have a friendly relationship but neither a bad one!
When she talks she is very rude and too direct. She also has a very loud voice. I cannot explain this in a better words to say how I feel - Say for example - one day my hubby and MIL were talking about some snack that my MIL wanted to buy from outside to eat, it was a very general conversation what they were having - suddenly my SIL out of nowhere comes there and in a very rude and loud voice says to my hubby - if she wants <my name> you go and buy right..why cant u go now and buy and come. My hubby felt bad and scolded her right then and there as to she cannot talk like that. Ofcourse I used this is just an example here to explaing my feelings better.
May be her intention are not to be offensive, but she injects herself into a conversation and says little rude things! And when it happens like this with me directly I am just split between saying her that what she said was rude VS just ignore.
Any ideas on how to handle this? Oh and my hubby has told her too many time to tone down when she is talking to somebody outside.
Your suggestions?
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