Got a doubt...I got meagrely hurt in a small accident few days back which I told only to my h & doctor bro. I did not tell it to my parents as they will feel worried. Today my bro had revealed it to my parents & when I was skyping with h my dad called me on phone & started asking why i did not tell him & started advising me worriedly..H on the other hand cut the call and msged me gud nite..After talking to dad when I pinged him he was all upset & I was angry as to why he did it..
(H doesnt like me sharing such bad things with parents..He tells he doesnt want to make my parents feel depressed. He rarely calls them & when we go home they all are cordial thats it & am still confused of whether he really cares for my parents.)
He was sullen & I confronted him..He asked why I revealed it..I told I never did & bro did that..He started asking sorry many times & gave gyan of how a doc should be..
I was rather irritated..He suddenly started crying & told that he felt bad for the accident & how he failed in his duty of taking care of me & that I am his possession & I should share all my pains with him only & that he wont leave me to anybody..
He is v competitive with my parents.. He compares his gifts with theirs & feel jealous..I openly asked him whether he is feeling possessive or what & his ans was may be.. I assured that you both are 2 poles & there is no room for comparison..
He concluded you will never know what is running inside me..
I love my parents so much & enjoy sharing, gossiping with them..Am literally afraid he would start restricting me..
How to handle this tactically? How to put some sense into him that I need some space to do what is comfortable for me?
Competitive husband!
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