mardi 26 août 2014

moving Inlaws in with us

my husband brought this up that hes planning to mve his parents in in few years and have been emotionally blackmailing me . When I say x+5 years to be the time frame, he start saying things like " oh what in that many years they wnt be anymore, then you tool no responsibility etc " he starts pointing out my uncle who lives with my grand mom and give me examples that everyone adjust and so n so...

i dnt know what to do and how to win this argument with him. Hes thinking next x years and he wants to plan now and start having them live with us starting with 6 months and in few years move them in permanently. My point of x+5 years is being dismissed right away .


my MIL is very manipulative, sweet on everyone's face and only cares about SIL. if my inlaws move, my SIL would practically live here...and will visit very often. My inlaws also never contribute or help us financially. Being the son, its all our responsibility .their traveling expenses, healthcare etc everything will be taken for granted and they give everything to SIL only...


not sure how to convince my husband that i'm not running away from responsibilities, but there is a right time for everything. At this age, they dominate and want to do everything their way ..






moving Inlaws in with us

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