in a fix

Hi Everyone,

Hope all of you are doing fine!

I wanted to take advise from all of you as I really feel I am a dumbass.

Mine was a love marriage and my in laws never wanted this marriage to happen. My FIL is greedy and wanted to mint good money from his son's marriage but that didnt happen, my MIL wanted a Katrina Kaif types bride but I am dusky and have very average features.

My husband is a pet of his parents and his happiness is exactly where his parents' is.

All through the marriage my MIL was crying alongwith SIL(she was also crying). After marriage was over they did not even bless me.

All through the honeymoon my DH tried contacting and pacifying his mom but she talked rudely and this spoilt my DH's mood.

Since then, it's been 4 years and I have been sufferring because of FIL,MIL and DH. Everytime MIL will try to put me down and taunt that am not good looking, dont do kitchen work properly, not social enough, my nature is good and the list is endless.

My DH silently sees all this but does NOTHING, his behaviour towards his parents remains unchanged.

FIL is not good from character also, he has tried to touch me in a way I did'nt like.He stares at me everytime I get ready and come out and will keep on staring and this makes me feel I am standing naked in front of him. He behaves in a way that Father in law will not, he will talk things to a DIL which he should not. I told my DH about this strange behaviour of his father, he said he spoke to him but I DONT THINK SO. He still talks to him and is with him the way he has been.

I am saying I cant say anything to MIL,FIL and SIL, I married him thinking he will safegaurd me but he toppled that thinking that faith of mine.

I sometimes feel, this problem has no solution I must get separated but I look at my parents and imagine the wrath they will face and step back.

Because of all these problem nothing is right between both of us and we are still childless :(

in a fix