Me and my husband frustrated because of my in laws

Invest in a house.Put most of your money there leaving only enough to live a decent life.

As for always obeying them....When will Indian 'children ' realize they are adults with brains and need not always listen and blindly follow them. Tell them you don't have to follow everything and if this continues ...you will need to find some place where you can get to live as adults.(provided you live with them).

If you don't live with them...just listen and do what you want.

Me and my husband frustrated because of my in laws