Relocation to US

After your marriage, your immediate family should be your first priority. That is your husband and son.

When both your husband and son wants to be together, and already started missing each other.... then you must give a lot of weight to their concerns.

At the same time, it is important to be protective of our parents at their elderly times.

Unless your parents are bed-ridden or sort of extreme illness or emotional state where your presence is utmost important, then you can try to convince your H and eventually son (coz kids can easily adapt to new envn). However, if your parents's conditions are not that critical then obviously you must try moving out.

However, give equal weight to the living condition, school and other issues such as your H's contract, your job status, expenses and all that into consideration.

Relocation to US