If his intention is clear and if you're sure that he's trying to be close to you and flirt with you etc, then you may need to act wise and try to keep him a bit far from your personal life. It is also better to discuss this with your hubby(if your hubby is an understanding person) so that in future, if this guy crosses his limits, then your hubby can understand you and may support you instead of creating misunderstandings.
If he again approaches you, concentrate on asking him to meet with his family instead of single. I mean show your interest in meeting his wife, kid etc. Be very normal and a bit reserved from next chat in case he asks you for a coffee. If he still behaves the same and start flirting with you, ask him what's your intention? And this time make him clear that you are not interested in all this and say that I am very happy with my married life. If he's not interested in his married life, he can't expect the same that every other married women(colleagues/friends) also have some problems and he can't expect them to come to him. Also how far is it true that if he's really having problems with his wife or his married life or he's just bluffing you trying to gain some sympathy from you and attract you towards him? Don't trust too much and just stay reserved.
Good luck.
Sree
Friendship with male co-worker .. plz advise
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