Is this Acceptable? Or just me making fuss?Help please

Hi All ,

I am married an year ago, arranged marriage where he himself approached us through friends, that time I am busy planning carrier and no thoughts to marry,i have to go for visa interview in a week I was fully in those preps, Then my dad called and told they are willing to marry you,they are saying he is very good guy who is working in america, everybody bought a kind of pressure on me, i dropped visa interview and said YES, but I am not so happy about it and somewhere I felt bad but thought my parents know whats good, I am actually kind of reserved, I like be silent most of the time, though I like a lot wont jump in joy,THATS ME

Now coming to the guy,over expressive he wants every body around him keep on talking, Then marriage over, first day I said him my plans and how suddenly I got married and give some time(untill I go USA in a month),That's when MIL and SIL gave entry, he said every thing to them , they started talking in directly , said H is more handsome than me and all, I am silent my MIL warned me that I have no life with out his son, still I am silent and went to US, I said him what all happened, he supported his mom, H actually good guy, loves me but if it comes b/w me and MIL ,defnetly he votes for MIL, he gets angry if I try to talk, more over he says everything to MIL, constant involvement, H under full influence of MIL, once we fought he called FIL shouted on me I thought he is going way too far, so left him and stayed with friends, The realized how much I love him and cant stay apart, decided to be silent when he is angry,so called him he took me back home, so we decided to keep in-laws away during fights, and we are good for 3 months

Last month I came India to learn technology, I stayed with my parents, he said to go see in laws , I went first day she is so good , I felt happy and next day she started saying he raised his son very well he is so good and now he is suffering because of me, I felt so bad , also claimed never ever say home sick , being a lady bow down your head, not even to think to step out of home as I face severe consequences if I do so, also said never say my son asked your family, we have status just because your father asked we came down and married me(H said my dad called because he is afraid to say he asked), my FIL added that my dad didn't raise me properly and there will be no personal matters at all b/w me and H, also I should not ask him salary details and property, I am shocked and called my H and cried my heart out, initially he is so good said to leave to my home and he will handle the situation ,

2 days later he called and said my parents are upset we all need to talk , MIL said I started the fight, this proves how much he believes me, I said good come with your parents we shall talk, then he is like you are making this issue big, go ahead make it big ... that means I should not say to my parents

Now how can I believe him? He will easily beinfluenced by MIL,
Is it really my dad's fault to say both genders are equal and girl to be independent

Now after all this what should I do ?? please advice

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Is this Acceptable? Or just me making fuss?Help please