please suggest me on what i can do

I will tell my problem shortly

I knew my hubby since 11 years. we were best friends , then loved and got married.Before marriage I used to share everything with him

Now my married life is in 2 stages

1 . before baby was born

a. my hubby was very loving , caring , respected my feelings etc

b. my mil mistreated me . she used to scold me , talk sarcastically , dominating very much . I used to tolerate everything and still used to talk nicely with her . But internally, I used to be very anxious about her ,was very angry with myself for not replying her. When I used to complain my hubby he used to tell me ' I know my mom is like this . ignore her and she will start being nice to u' .

2. after baby was born

a. my hubby criticizes me constantly for everything , not so lovey dovey like before ,sometimes scolds me very harshly

b. my mil created too many problems and tensions for me after delivery.I came to know how bad she was after having my baby . I thought " enuf is enuf". I have stopped taking crap from her. I avoid her calls whenever possible . i talk formally to her . I dont reveal any details to her. I reply back when she gives unnecessary advice or when she shouts at me . I too talk sarcastically sometimes as she mostly talks like that to me . So my mil has told my hubby that I have started hating her and he is mistreating me and my parents.

Give me some suggestions r ideas what I need to do in this case to get my relationship back to normal

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please suggest me on what i can do