I happily went from office to home.I did household chores and my MIL was in good mood. After some time she sat to meditate and by that time DH was home too. He also sat along with her and took DS along. I was preparing dinner.In few minutes DH husband called me to take DS and make him pee. I was quite occupied in my work so asked him to wait for a while. But he called me thrice back to back but being occupied I could not reach immediately.
[note: If I get late in preparing dinner then MIL makes issue out of this, so was in hurry to wrap up.]
Still everything was normal. But later at night my MIL asked me to provide her warm oil. As i was already in kitchen I instantly took the oil to warm. I did not say 'yes' or 'no' considering the fact that my movement is visible to her.
To this she responded " no one replies back to my words". I got angry.And to this my husband added quickly "yes, it should be responded" . I turned furious.
Why the hell DH supported MIL? Was his input necessary? If he did not liked my way he should have explained it later.
MIL just spoiled my day one more time.
I called my husband to let him know that I did not like it. He says he can not talk to me freely. He do not have confidence on me that he can say anything.
Where in I expect him to understand my point too. I admit it was a bit hurry to discuss things than and there but whenever I try to discuss any such event with him I only get disappointment.
He is upset to me that I dont listen and I am upset with him that why he added his input.
What's the best way to avoid such situations. Please help.
Am I wrong?
How to handle such situation?
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