Domestic violence -power and control

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Domestic violence including emotional manipulation, verbal abuse, economical abuse, financial abuse, sexual abuse

Is a learned behaviour- role modelling by male members of the family

Can be prevented by programs

Children who grow up in homes with domestic violence become batterers or choose batterers as partners . Sometimes healthy individuals do so

Domestic violence is abt power and control and coping strategy to manage abuse or trauma the abusers have undergone in childhood.

Abusers have low self esteem and have a weird thpught abt masculinity that woman are inferior

Abusers tend to have more male children

Plus alcohol is not a reason for DV. The abuser uses alcohol as a cover for his abuse so his shortcomings are not known

Plus abusers have low EQ, have poor interpersonal and unhealthy relationships. But only their intimate partners know how they are . Abusers chose when to abuse and how to abuse the victim and dont have any remorse. Its the fear of getting caught rather than sincere apology

They never change. They see the victim as an object...

They need psychological help

If you are in an abusive relationship, get out ASAP esp if you have children as you will end up creating a new abuser in thr the family.

Dont stay just for the sake of society or saving your marriage as its very hard.

Victims of DV, please read the power and control wheel and the psychology of the abuser.

Domestic violence -power and control