- A successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with same person

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If the post is not good please delete the same because I feel hurt if I get negative comments. But still I wanted to post this from my experience

Mydaughter had posted this in whatsapp and it made me write about married life, how tomake our married life happy. I know there will be many controversies because my thinking might be different as I am from the olden times but also of the present age as I have seen life and also as a working women learnt so many things. I am writing from my experiences as a wife, as a mother

My daughter had posted this quote and written about a letter of a mother to her son. So thought of sharing my views also

A single moment of misunderstanding is very dangerous because within minutes it makes us forget hundred lovable moments spent together

For a happy married life we need our husband support always and also our in law's support. Sometimes we may not get our in law's support those times if we have husband's suppor then we are able to carry on our life and not get disappointed.

A mother in law becomes mother in law after being a wife and mother. So she should know the difficulties face by a wife. She should be a good support to her daughter in law and if the son makes a mistake she should correct him. Whatever mistake she does he should not tell about it in front of everyone which will affect her and make her get angry on her husband.

All are not experts in everything , we dont learn anything when we come to this world. By experience only we learn everything. For some people cooking comes very easily even though they have not tried in the past. But for some they dont know the basic things and also they dont have the courage and because of their nervousness they are not able to cook perfect. Thosewho are expert in cooking in the family instead of teaching them and encouraging them they find out the faults which makes the person cooking disappointed and their love becomes less for that person. Some are bold and because they have pointed out their mistakes , they take care when next time they cook and want to learn and earn a name. So without worrying they do it and the cooking also comes perfect and they get appreciation from everyone.

Daughters coming from a well to do family and getting married to a less well to do family are not able to adjust because of the comforts they had in their own house and get irritated and not able to adjust with the others. Some forget their past and adjust in that situation and are able to lead a happy life. They take life as it comes and think that it is their fate so why to blame others.

In present life the parents themselves want to stay separate and enjoy their space, so that the children also can enjoy their space, can become independant and know how to face life. Whenever they want they can keep in touch with their parents and also get their blessings and advices if they are interested

Don’t worry that your children never listen to you, worry that they are always watching you.

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with the same person.

Relationships are important than life , but it is more important for those relationships to have life in them….

Every father should remember that one day his
son will follow his example instead of his advice.
- Charles F. Kettering

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