MIL Stirring the Mind with influence of BIL family

hi ladies,

i have long story with BIL & co-sis family who are staying in same city. Because of MIL double game, i faced very bad insult from co-sis & BIL during my pregnancy days. From that day onwards we cut down the relationship with BIL family until now. we didn't invite them to any of our son ceremonies because they made big insult to me which took me & my baby almost to edge of Death. DH also hates them now. but in between PIL came to us & staying with us now because they kept their schedule as 1 yr @ 1 son system. so they came with name of help to me which i didn't ask them.

ok, 3 days ago PIL went to their BIL house just for 3 days vacation. yesterday evening I & my DH along with DS went to BIL house area( we have shoping work in that area) to pick up the PIL. when we reached their area & called to FIL to said we are waiting for them in main road. (we did same process for last 3 times)

suddenly my MIL picked the phone and forcing my DH that" Come to BIL house. come to our home.."

Dh opposed with angry voice....."whether you want to coming or not with me?"

she said " yes we will. but come to Brother home & pick us".

DH shouted with angry voice" then come down fast. we don't have time to wait hear for long' & then cut the phone.

They came down after 10 min & sat down in car with angry face. no one talked with each other until 30 min. then my DS creates cheerful environment with his activities. Ok. that episode ends hear. I know PIL are mind less & easily influenced by BIL.

but like this, my BIL & co-sis influencing my PIL all times...like

"why they are not inviting us..."(with SIL)

"what wrong we did? just we want to teach her(me) how to respect elders...so on..".(with PIL)

Me & my DH hates their expectations really & getting very disturbed with their emotional dramatical behaviour. so we avoided them. but again they are trying to stir our minds through PIL. my DS 1st birthday coming on next month. may be if my MIL ask us to invite BIL family also....how to say No firmly with proper reasons.

how to stop this stirring process with out arguments in smooth way with PIL.

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MIL Stirring the Mind with influence of BIL family