What you did was right, no need for you to courier stuff to his sister when he does not even bother talking to your brother, that too for a sister who who doesn't talk to you much.
But if you ask about this from a broader perspective, then I feel that the reason a man does not talk much to his wife's family is because men in general are less emotional and less sensitive.
They can only have feeling for their own blood.
I have an affectionate relation with my mama and kaka, they really care for me and adore me.
Whereas with my fufaji and mausaji, I only have formal relations, and I am happy keeping it that way.
In future I don't expect my hubby to mingle with my family as much as I would with his.
But now after reading yellowmango's post, I feel we should also set some standards for ourselves, otherwise our husbands might not even maintain formal relations with our families.
Why do husbands keep a distance from the wifes family?
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