I used to talk to them earlier whenever we called them or they called us. There were no issues whatsoever.
After horrible things that my in-laws said and did during my pregnancy and our visit to India last year when I was 6 months pregnant, and both SIL's bad behaviour towards me, I had put my foot down that I want to keep minimum contact with them personally but DH is free to maintain his relationship obviously as they are his family.
So since then I have just had minimum hi hello with them when absolutely necessary otherwise DH only talks to them and doesnt ask me to talk. And SILs also never ask about me or even mention me when talking to DH.
Now that my PILs are visiting us for 6 long endless months , my MIL has been after my life to talk to SILs. I have been ignoring and been so busy anyway that dont get a chance. 1 or 2 times MIL cleverly called one of the SILs exactly at the moment when I had a second and was about to sit down, but I also cleverly immediately went to the bathroom and didnt come out till the call was over.
Today MIL called her exactly at the moment I came out of the bathroom and sat down and opened my computer. Then she brought her laptop to me and asked me to talk to her. DH knows that would make me furious. He immediately came next to me and took the laptop and started talking himself but PILs also kept sitting there and as soon as he was done talking, forced me to talk to her.
I feel like throwing PILs out of my house. Since it is my house too and they are here without my consent, can I go to the police and have them evacuated and deported to India?
I keep thinking about insulting them so badly that they leave on their own but am not able when the time comes. I just cant disrespect someone who is elder to me even if I want to
MIL Forcing to talk with SIL
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