A dose of their own medicine?

Dear IL Friends,

Before beginning my thread, I would like to express my thanks for all suggestions I have got in my past.

I am again at a point in life where I need your opinions again. I am in the US and my siblings and parents are in india. I have never had a very good relationship with my parents. Most of it soured after marriage. They sort of forced me into the marriage and turned their backs on me when I was suffering in the marriage. You can check my other threads to see what kind of a creep they have got me married into. They married me at a time when I was too young , not mentally strong enough to defy them. After marriage, my mother deliberately set the stage to sour my relationship with my in-laws and it was all in all a horrible married life.

Now, things have so turned that I have patched up my relation with in-laws and reached an amicable solution with my husband. Married life is not the best but it is ok. Back in India, because of my parents distrustful deceiving nature, my uncles, aunts and all have outcasted them from the family. It's like whatever my mother tried to put in my plate, has come down in her plate.

My siblings wedding is fixed and my parents are forcing me to come to India. I am unable to move on from the past bitter memories I have had with them and pretend all happy in my siblings marriage. Even now my parents carry an indifferent attitude towards me and think they are right in doing so to me. They care only about themselves and not about me.

Now that my parents have been outcasted by my uncles,aunts, Should I leave all the past differences and be there for my parents or am I better off being away from them?

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A dose of their own medicine?