my MIl asks as it comes around my hubby's birthday
what do we want to give him? (i mean really? why do you presume i want to give joint gift?)
It is not about money....if they want to buy something and needs money and tell me that he please take us there we want to shop, i will be happy to...
but she asks me as if it is my responsibility to find a perfect gift on behalf of them all...and give as joint gift , what if i do not want to give joint gift...my problem is they do not take efforts to come up with ideas....and do nto come prepared....
even when i threw a big party for my DH for his 40th bday...i gave him a special gift , it was all my planned, all research i did, i figure what he wants (he does not have much hobbies so it becomes a challeneg to fin something for him)
and that year also question came and i said I am giving this item, so she said great idea, let;s give it (huh? ...did not u hear 'I am ' part?)
Of course if i want to give something privately, i can besides the joint gift but what i do not like is finding gift for them is imposed on me.....they never come up with ideas....
Today also she asked....so i said "he returns everything i give if expensive....so i have started just buying clothes n give him, so I will give clothes"
still she asks..."let's give him something nice..." i asked for ideas and then she went mum...
i mean why can't they figure their own gift? Or m i expecting too much?
joint(Iinlaws) gift for hubby for his bday
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