vendredi 24 octobre 2014

sweet MIL situation.need advise.

Let me start by saying this, my mil is nice lady. But she can be stubborn about some things which really bothers me.

They have come to stay with us for 4 months. My husband has cholesterol problem and their family has a history of cholesterol abd heart related problems. She loves making rich sweets at home. I have requested her several times to not bring too many of it since we cannot eat it due to health reasons. She says yes but she continues to do so by giving stupid reasons..if it is at home my husband eats it..even if he resists she puts it on his plate. These are not small quantities abd they drip of ghee and ofcourse they will be tasty.


She says we can give it to friends etc..knowing fully well that we cannot do that immediately ..

Before we meet friends and give it to them , the damage is already done.


I know this is a silly problem, but it bothers me that she sheet respect my wish which is impacting her sons health. It also bothers me that it bothers me.


My husband has tried to tell her, didn't work, my dh also assured that he will be watchful but I know how it goes.


I don't want to fight or argue..

Do I.let this go or is there a good way to.handle this?

Afterall it is my husbands health..I know he should be the one who should be responsible but he acnnot say no.when it.is.put.on his.plate..


Advise ladies.






sweet MIL situation.need advise.

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