Mil started her tantrums again...

My dh was in washroom and he was surprised why i dc the phone.

I dont care about her but i am concerned about my relationship with dh.

How should i behave when she visits, it will be her first time in USA.

So MIL acts up only when your DH is not around. Tell DH no washroom visits when your in-laws are in the U.S.

Minimize your time at home when they visit. The U.S. has so many places you can go even if you are not working - the public library, the community center, Starbucks, even the local firestation often has a public room you can use. Keep as many interactions with in-laws as possible via DH. Try to keep your mood and expression pleasant as much as possible.

Your aim is to get through their visit with your sanity intact and your relationship with DH not much impacted. It is not your aim to expose your MIL's antics or cunning nature.

Mil started her tantrums again...