Need Suggestions to build a positive relationship with MIL

Hi Ladies..

As I am going to get married at the end of next year that is 2016, I was thinking of how can I use this time so that I can adjust with my in laws specially with my MIL after marriage.
My In laws are Pure North Indian Punjabi Family. But my Parents natives are from Dehradun (Mountains) My would be MIL is not an educated lady. She was born and brought up in a village before her marriage. I have been born and brought up in city only. Even my Mother has never lived in village (though her natives are from village but she has only visited there in her childhood) , So My mother has raised me as per the city rules ( like buying ready made packed wheat , buying ready made bed sheets, quilts etc. )

In my future house, my MIL used to get the (Gehu) Unmashed wheat from her native village and then she used to clean it all by herself before getting it mashed from outside ( thank god she doesn't mash it at home) , She used to do embroidery on bedsheets , quilts , pillow covers at home and I have no Knowledge about it. (Though my mother also know this art but she has never used it as we never required it to do at home). { These are the chores my would be was talking about that i mentioned in my previous thread in Singles forum}

My would be always try to convince my MIL , not to do these chores at home as these things are easily available in market, but she never listen to him. She don't let my would be DH and FIL buy wheat bread , juice packs , instant food packets. She thinks these all things are not healthy and are money wasting. These all things are common things to buy with monthly grains at my home currently.

There are much more things that are different in my Future and Current home like breakfast options are vast at my house but there my would be DH eats Whole wheat Stuffed Rotis (paranthas) on daily basis.

Also my Mom is a soft spoken lady but my MIL is straight forward sometimes harsh and rude. ( She is very sweet at heart, she used to scold my would be DH if he fights with me or makes fun of me unnecessarily ) Yet because of her harsh and straight forward behavior I fear how would I be able to adjust ? Please suggest something ladies in advance....

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Need Suggestions to build a positive relationship with MIL