Is it okay to cut my toddler's hair in house even before first tonsure

Hello All,

My son is 2.4 years old now and he will be joining school this june. Due to IL's issues his tonsure was not done before 1st b'day. Then they told tonsure should be done after 2 years. Because i am preg currently, again tonsure is cancelled. Last year, i did cut his curly hair slightly in house and the same day evening he fell down and his lower lip was slightly wounded.

Again in dec, my father cut his hair, and after 1 week his lip was cut deeply.

Now, i wanna cut his hair slightly, as it is very curly and long.

is that okay? i know iam insane relating stupid things. Please pour some thoughts

Hi,

You thought your Son is wounded due to hair cut before his First Tonsure!

Ok! Just take a white cloth and dig it in Turmeric paste and made yellow. Then took few coins for rupees Like 1.50 or 5 or 11 and place it in cloth and tie hard.

Then keep it before the Pooja Room self before any god picture and pray yourself, if you planned to do first tonsure to any particular god, pray that god! Now i cant able to do tonsure, now i cut his hair slightly, don't made any hurt on him! Please bless him and forgive me please!

Then go and do your regular activities and hair cut your son either home or in saloon!

Thats it!

Dont worry! In these days many people cant follow rituals properly! In My Family, We need to Tonsure child for 11 Temples, it is either girl or Boy!

Think about myself!

My son is 3 Years now, I complete 5 Tonsures only! In our family we just follow the same yellow cloth method and go temples to do Tonsures as per our wish!

Family means (My Family, My Fils Brothers Family, my Fils cousins family etc etc)

So don't go deep inside this matter and bring your kid to Shop to cut perfect!

When you visit that temple bring this coins there and buy any pooja things and use that!

Is it okay to cut my toddler's hair in house even before first tonsure