jeudi 21 août 2014

pressure for using gifted clothes

Before and after marriage I was given dress materials and saries as gift on different ocassions from in laws side mostlay from MIL and SIL.

My SIL has been pressuring me to wear those saries and dresses.I have wear on some ocassion just to satisfy them.But my sil is still not happy.When ever there is a function she come to me and suggest me to wear her gifted sari or dress.If I refuse telling her some excuse she goes to MIL and complain about me.She spread it among her relatives that they have given those saries dresses with so much love but I dont wear it.I disrespect and hurt her feelings doing so.


I don't know what to do.Her choice is different than that of me.I just dont like wearing those colors and styles.


What shall I do.Shall I just continue to do what I do and let her keep spoiling my name on my back.Shall I just tell her upfront that I don't like to wear that stuff, I am worried thatwill create another drama.What do i do?






pressure for using gifted clothes

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