Hi friends
I posted about my dhs dramatic behaviour after raksha bandhan. Please refer to my last thread.
After 2 3 days he became quite normal. But it was illusive.
After that he starts his office talks in a normal way. everything seemed normal as in going for movies, parties etc but one thing that he stopped completely is intimacy.
I was busy with my studies and he was stressed because of his office problems. But official ones are not that big. I took this normal.
But in last 3 4 days he started making wild excuses. In last 2 years i have never seen him with this less interest. So i tried to figure out the problem... i started thinking why he is showing no interst in me, to be honest, i checked his phone and find increased frequency of phn calls to his mum, and his Indian account balance is also dropped from 2 and a haf lacs to 14k(might be a reason for stress(lack of intimacy), he is thinking much of his mum, bro and taking me as a doormat, he do so whenever his mum and bro cook sumthing against me).
An year back he transferred a significant amt to his dad without telling me, when i asked he promised me to tell everything in future. but after 8 months he again transferred around 2 lacs to his bro account so that he cud buy some gifts for his cousins wedding. i again confronted and he simply said dad spend the amt, not me. I heard his bro conversations where i gt to know this.
How to deal
I posted about my dhs dramatic behaviour after raksha bandhan. Please refer to my last thread.
After 2 3 days he became quite normal. But it was illusive.
After that he starts his office talks in a normal way. everything seemed normal as in going for movies, parties etc but one thing that he stopped completely is intimacy.
I was busy with my studies and he was stressed because of his office problems. But official ones are not that big. I took this normal.
But in last 3 4 days he started making wild excuses. In last 2 years i have never seen him with this less interest. So i tried to figure out the problem... i started thinking why he is showing no interst in me, to be honest, i checked his phone and find increased frequency of phn calls to his mum, and his Indian account balance is also dropped from 2 and a haf lacs to 14k(might be a reason for stress(lack of intimacy), he is thinking much of his mum, bro and taking me as a doormat, he do so whenever his mum and bro cook sumthing against me).
An year back he transferred a significant amt to his dad without telling me, when i asked he promised me to tell everything in future. but after 8 months he again transferred around 2 lacs to his bro account so that he cud buy some gifts for his cousins wedding. i again confronted and he simply said dad spend the amt, not me. I heard his bro conversations where i gt to know this.
I am just thinking vaguely about the reasons.
Ladies sometimes i think whats the point of this marriage. too depressed at this point.
Here i have 2 problems, please help me so that i can cope up. thank you all.
How to deal
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