feeling frustrated

My pil are here in usa to help us out with our 2 yr old kid. When we are busy they take full care of our kid including cooking meals for us. Lately they have been feeling home sick. My mil cried to me saying that she is feeling home sick. We try to take them around but as we are busy it's really hard to take them around all the time. Now my frustration started when my mil all of a sudden started acting all weird when taking my son out for a walk I asked her if she wants to come she said I m tired . When I came back then she went for a walk with my fil. She repeated it again I got so frustrated thinking what have I done. Like in my previous post I wrote that I m very outspoken may be I said something not knowing.

Then my other frustration is my fil was having drink and he mentioned that they will buy a land and build a house with all of us living. My mil said that it can be just one story big house. My husband was there listening and didn't say anything as I had mentioned to him that I want to live in a different floor. I told him later that he should mention this to his parents before it's too late. My hubby said that it's not that they are buying the land today. His parents are very emotional I told him to prepare them from before , he just gives me a silent treatment. I don't know what to do?

Also I have started to stay in my room more than spending time with pil as when I spend too much time with them it seems like they end up not liking me talking so much as I get so open with them just like i would with my parents.

People say random things when drunk!! And buying a land, building a house.... do you even know the amount of time the process will take? If all this ever materializes, there will be plenty of time to "prepare" them! So don't sit and start stressing about something that is not even a concrete plan.

As for MIL/FIL going for a walk alone.... you have seen so many people in these forums complaining that they do not get alone time with their husbands when in-laws visit. The roles seem to be reversed in your case. If they want to spend time by themselves, what is the big deal? After dealing with an active toddler all day, they probably want some time by themselves. Why do you want to begrudge them that?

For all you know, if your husband really went and spoke to his dad about his land buying plans and home building plans, he would probably blink and wonder what he is blabbering! He probably doesn't even remember that he said such a thing!

feeling frustrated