Need clarity

Hello Friends,

Here is my story

I am married for 5 years blessed with 2 kids, arranged marraige with my cousin. My father and FIL are close friends and relatives.

I am the 3rd DIL of the family and the only working and high monthly earning member of the whole family. The other 2 DIL are housewife.

My DH is youngest son and very dear to his parents. My FIL and MIL depend on my DH. DH elder brothers do not give any income to their parents.

My MIL is very fond of the first DIL who is envious on my working nature. My Father is well off and he like my MIL ( father's own sister) and FIL ( Friend) very much.

When i got married, myself, my DH first brother and my in-laws used to live together. The First DIL used to make fun of me and always keeps proving me wrong in all the small household works in do. When i complained about this to my husband, he favored, the 1st DIL saying they all live together and asked me to adjust.

My MIL also favored the 1st DIL and slowly starting complaining about me to my father. Due to this the relationship between my father and my in laws started fading. My father also was not very happy on my behavior.

I felt sad and informed my mother about the happenings at home and how all of them tease me. My DH is a good person and he takes good care of me. He is very rude and abusing only if i question on my MIL or the 1st DIL.

My Father financed both my deliveries and gave lot of money and gold for his grandchild and took good care of my hubby whenever he came home.

One day my DH wanted to give some money to my brother and he asked me for the money. I told him that i have money for school admission for my kids that year and i will not be able to give him the money.

He started behaving very rudely and hit me inside the car in the middle of the road. He went home and hit me so badly. He demanded the money to be given to his brother. I gave the money and informed about this incident one week later to my mother.

My Father asked my FIL to meet him the next day and scolded him badly. He also called my husband and scolded him for beating me up. The relationship between my father and FIL was totally ruptured.

Months rolled by and things became normal.

After few months, we went to our hometown to attend a marriage. My Relative ( one another cousin) told my father that my MIL used to inform everything that happens between me and my husband to all the ppl in the family every time she travels to hometown. She also abused me, my mom, my dad using bad words. She used to make fun of me.

Knowing this my father called them and shouted on their behavior. From that day, my DH turned dead against my father. He scolded me, abused me and my parents. He refuses to believe that his mother is spreading so many abused words about me and my family. He asked me not to see my parents and my parents should not come to visit me. He also told me that the relative ( one another cousin ) is a bad person who spreads lot of gossips in the family.

My Observations: My DH is very innocent and dumb in understanding relationships. He blindly believes his mother and brother. He keeps teasing me but take very good care of me.

My MIL is a lady who can twist a normal scenario into a terrifying shooter game. But, she takes good care of my children.

My FIL is person, who is very stubborn and has a habit of bossing and saying lies to maintain his bossy nature.

Need clarity