She is very talented,hardworking and has some good qualities too.
However,she feels she needs to be the best.
In my community,myself and her are the only south Indians.Hence,I feel it more.
her face changes if I do something better than her.For eg, be it driving or keeping the home clean etc
New thing is dressing.I am balanced in dressing wear both traditional and mordern.At home,I even wear shorts.
this neighbor is very homely and usually she dresses in salwars or teeshirts with loose pants and no matter what keeps a bindi.I have always seen her that way.Offlate,I found her imitating me and trying to take it a notch better.Initially,I thought it was my imagination but now i find maybe I am not.
For eg,she has never worn sleeveless.I wore lots of sleeveless this summer and she started to come to my home only in sleeveless and not feeling comfortable.
she keeps talking 4 to 5 times about how she also wears shorts at home all the time.I was like ok cool. the next day she came home early in the morning in her shorts,spoke to me for 10 mts and left.
Next week,I was wearing a summer dress.next day she wore that and came home.
yesterday,I wore shorts and a teeshirts at home and we were talking.I found her sizing me up.
today,she came home in shorts and sleeveless,spoke for 10 mts and left.
I find it very weird and honestly irritating.
I can very clearly see she is not at comfortable in it.she keeps pulling her shirt,touching her shorts to cover her thighs.then why does she do it?see,if it is her style and if it is what she wants,she has every right to but she is not.
I used to like her for her elegant self before and now I do not even like her much and even iam sure she does not like her this way.
why does she need to show off and need my approval??what's is with some people and fierce competetion?
Irritated with show off lady...
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