my day starts like this..
1)morning 5.30 I get up go to the gym
2) come back around 7 am to see my hubby ready and my toddlers running about lol
3)I give coffee and breakfast to him and he rushes out.his commute to office is one hour and hence he has to leave early.
4)then I feed my kids breakfast around 8 am and do they eat fast?NOPE.they take their own sweet time,spilling and teasing me.
5)then around 8.40 after they finish,they start to run around and mess the house.thank god for few gates,some rooms are saved.then non-stop tantrum and crying as they are annoyed.so i put some music or little tv by the time i clear out dishwasher and start my breakfast,side by side starting to cook.
6)then while cooking is going on,do some laundary.kids run behind me so fast and enter the laundary room.so i hurry and rush out.then by the time i finish lunch,then their bath time comes.I have to bath them separately as they want solid time for themselves.then to make them wear clothes is another huge deal.
7)they run around,and finally after putting their clothes on,need to come their hair only to find them giving me their bands the minute i finish coming their hair.so by this time it is 11am.I need to take my bath too!I rush to the bathroom but my shrewd kids know I am taking my bath and run behind me,knock my doors and cry in their top voice.Hmm..ok.I rush out and get dressed and leave the bathroom.it is almost 11.30am.
8) need to clear out the kitchen a bit and by the time it is 12pm .I feed them lunch and around 12.40 have mine
9).Around 1 pm,i put them to bed.wow! the sleep training is the most difficult thing but somehow acheived it.when they are sleeping,i finish cleaning the house and laundary and when I am about to lie down for rest,one by one the kids wake up.
10)again give them some snacks and play with them.then cook dinner.clean up kitchen and kids want to play outside again.I go out,run behind them play for sometime.I am hungrier than they are!but I feed them first and then eat.
11)daddy comes home only around 9 pm due to carpooling.so all day,all work for me with kids.
daycare is too expensive for us this time so kiddos are at home.also, another true reason is we want to spend some time with our kids as despite the hardwork, some things I do not want to miss.
anyways, Then to put them to sleep at night is another story.and some days for many other reasons I find it more tougher as they run about,spill stuff and cleaning goes on and on.everyday it is like this.
why I am saying this?My aunt told me I am lucky to be at home not doing much.I thought I was doing some work atleast? am I doing it all wrong? can it be done much easier?some days kids behave decent so I am ok but mostly it is a mad house lol.I want to know if I am doing it all wrong.tips please?thank you.
Am I lazy?am I not working enough?
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