Updates about my headache!!

Hey everyone..I was super busy because of March ending and hence haven't been able to visit the forum from sometime..

How are you all?

My side-Daughter is growing up fast.I am juggling between job,touring and family with a lot of care and support from my husband's side,a lot of support from my mom and dad and no support rather a lot of jerks,heartburns and headaches from MIL and SIL..

MIL,as usual keeps visiting and staying in long spells only to take a break and go to SIL when she has to give her money or they have to do something on our back..MIL and SIL's fake love for my DD keeps increasing day by day but they would not even keep her for an hour if I am busy with office..

Never mind..I have singe handedly managed to do a fine job in bringing her up till now..She is more than a year now and day by day it's getting easier for me to manage..

Well,SIL is shifting to a metro now with 100% backing of MIL.BIL and his family are on an offshore assignment and hence are somewhat saved from their responsibility.

MIL got a big chunk of my deceased FIL's investments right now and she told her sons she wants to keep it for herself.No one asked her why?I got to know that she is giving it all to SIL in form of jewellery and cash.She is also selling a couple of small ancestral properties of my FIL.We or our kids will not get a dime out of them.That will also go to SIL and her kids.Not that I want it,but I want atleast an open discussion should take place about her passing away everything to SIL.Funny thing is-MIL says she needs it for herself and then passes it on to SIL..

I suggested my DH if our kid will ever get a share in her father's property?He was quiet.I know he is also irritated with all this but not able to do a thing.My DH is getting to know a lot more things about MIL and SIL.

But His brother is enabling everything and I am so very angry with him..

On the other hand,SIL is crying about how she and her mom (my MIL) aren't getting along well together and her kids are also repeating the same.

How come she takes everything from her mom and still criticises.Selfish to the core..It's also an indication that they won't stay together once she shifts to a different city..

I opposed her shifting but no one did anything about it.Everyone thinks her kids should atleast get good opportunity to study.Ironically,SIL is not concerned about their study.All she raves about is the big malls,eating joints etc of that city..

Since DH and I are tied financially,we don't have much to spare right now..

But no one is actually even telling SIL about her managing herself and her house in a certain amount every month.Nothing has been discussed yet..

Don't know what's going to happen..I am totally baffled..

But I have clearly put my foot down and also warned DH about possible problems over more demands of money from SIL.And that he is going to explain her.I am not going to tolerate anything which disturbs us or our family..

Don't know what can I do in this situation..Her shifting seems inevitable and so is the spending of family's inherited property and money on SIL..And eventually the old lady will land at our place in her old age for sewa..

Sorry for the vent..

Please suggest something to cure my headache.I keep telling myself-a few more years..A few more years!!

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Updates about my headache!!